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Kay Gee, co-founder and contributing
editor of this Global Garden website, and my darling wife & life companion has
passed away. I can’t believe that I am writing these words. Kay died of breast
cancer. It was a particularly devious presentation of cancer called lobular
cancer which is near to impossible to detect before it has spread.
The journey through life is, at least
partly, a random walk. On that random walk chance events do happen. The most
wonderful thing that has happened on my walk was meeting Kay. A chance meeting
through a mutual friend grew into almost 40 years of love, beautiful
companionship and a warm family.
Born in 1952 Kay grew up on a dairy
farm at Calliope near Gladstone in Central Queensland, Australia (very close to
the Tropic of Capricorn). Her frequent ambles along the creek that ran through
this farm started her life long love of flora & fauna.
She loved growing up on that farm (and loved revisiting it in later years) but a
small town was never going to hold the adult Kay. It was the 60’s and, with The
Animals hit tune “We Gotta Get Out of This Place” as their theme song, Kay & her
high school mates planned their escape to the bright lights of Brisbane, the
state capital.
Kay won a university scholarship and
completed a Bachelor of Arts degree followed by a Graduate Diploma in Education
at the University of Queensland. Kay & I meet when she was at university and we
have been inseparable ever since. We married in 1972.
Kay was a high school teacher in Brisbane for the next ten years.
During the 1970’s the world was shrinking and the arrival of the jumbo jet
brought with it affordable air travel - even from Australia. With Frommer’s
“Europe on $10 Dollars a Day” and the Eurail timetable tucked under our arms we
joined the throngs of young Aussies experiencing Europe & Asia for the first
time. Almost a third of a century later Kay still drew regular delight from
those memories of our first overseas adventure. We had no idea that the
internet would soon shrink the world even further.
But it was difficult for anything up
to that point to compare with the delight of the arrival of our first baby in
1982. She came into the world on the day the Commonwealth Games started in
Brisbane.
The front page of the local paper The Courier Mail had a photo of the
games mascot – a winking kangaroo. The accompanying headline “With a Wink and a
Nod Our Games Begin” applied so appropriately to our new circumstances.
In 1984 my employer transferred us to
Melbourne, Victoria. Kay loved Melbourne from the very beginning.
It was hard
being separated from friends & family but Melbourne’s beautiful gardens, art,
dining and live comedy scene had Kay hooked right from the start. Our second
darling daughter was born soon after in 1985.
This completed what, to us, was a divinely warm family unit.
Kay was always a gifted writer, as
attested to by her academic performance. When the girls were small she combined
this ability with her love of flora and started to write freelance magazine
articles – predominately gardening related. A talented artist she frequently
illustrated her articles with drawings of flora or insects. Gardening, writing,
and family were her passions. Around 1986 Kay became editor at “Australian Better
Gardens & Home Ideas” a publication distributed through nurseries. She remained
editor until her death.
The girls went to the local kindergarten &
primary school and Kay became involved in their organization. She was President
of the local kindergarten when asbestos was found in the ceiling of its
building. The asbestos threatened the very existence of the kinder and the
decades of community work that developed its infrastructure. Kay organized an
alternative short term premises at little cost while the kinder was made safe.
That kinder still exists today.
Kay was a calm personality but also
very passionate about things that she held dear. When the local primary school
community found their wonderful school environment under threat from the state
government TV News sent a reporter to the school and Kay, as a member of the
School Council, presented a fiery, on camera case for the school remaining open.
Fortunately the efforts of the whole
school community did enable it to remain open. Kay’s love of gardening made her
a natural to run the plant store for many years at the primary school fete. Kay
loved her involvement in that delightful local Primary School community.
To consolidate her already significant
plant knowledge Kay enrolled in a post-graduate horticulture course at the
University of Melbourne, Burnley College after the kids started school. Kay was
always academically bright so it was no surprise to me that she graduated as Dux
of her course. But there was something more significant than that – she
absolutely loved the course. Kay really knew that she had found her tribe!
In 1996, when Microsoft’s Internet
Explorer was barely one year old, most people did not have an internet
connection, few companies had a website and Google was yet to arrive Kay & I
founded Global Garden. It was one of the world’s first gardening web sites. It
was unique in Australia in being updated monthly (just like a magazine) and was
possibly unique in the world in this regard. It went on to win several awards
and remains extremely popular. I did the geeky bits while Kay did what really
mattered – the content.
Global Garden won the inaugural Australian Horticultural Media Award for
communicating via a website or CD.
Kay, the quiet achiever, has built up
a very loyal & very appreciative, worldwide readership. The many items without
an author attributed to it which have appeared within Global Garden over the last
12 years were written by Kay. A truly enormous achievement. Kay also continued
to write freelance articles, provide advice via a telephone hotline for a
horticultural company and produce horticultural writing (including website
writing) for horticultural companies. |